Seven Steps to Being Comfortable Praying as a Couple:
Day 1. Pray individually - silently - for 1 minute sitting side by side.
Day 2. Pray the Our Father or Hail Mary together holding hands sitting side by side.
Day 3: One person pray the Our Father and the other pray the Hail Mary sitting side by side.
Day 4: Each person prays aloud briefly, side by side, asking God for help for friends and family.
Day 5: Each person prays aloud briefly, side by side, asking God for help in your marriage.
Day 6: Each person prays a prayer of praise to God.
Day 7: Holding each other in your arms, pray quietly aloud thanking God for the gift of your spouse, and asking Him for something special for your spouse.